Groomers often turn their victims’ mistakes on them as examples that the groomer is more intelligent or capable. They may push their victim to feel more helpless, so that the groomer can come and save them from the world (or from themselves). They may push a victim to see others as “against them” or “wanting to see them fail,” in order to isolate them.
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